May 23, 2013

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Letting Go of a Bad Marriage or Relationship

Having worked with thousands of relationships, I have a few tips for those of you want to cut your losses and leave a bad one. First of all, let’s dispense with the notion of immediate “friendship.” If you’ve been struggling with a destructive relationship, then you’re going to need more distance than that. Friendship is possible when both parties have fairly good emotional boundaries around what’s private and not common ground. Coming from a destructive relationship, those boundaries are going to need time to be regenerated. If you’re going to “separate”, the harder task is to separate emotionally, not just physically. Casual leisure contact sends your unconscious the misguided message that the relationship will continue as usual. It will prevent you from getting on with the painful but necessary business of grieving over the losses. If you try to keep casual company with each other, you probably will begin to suffer “strategic amnesia” or another form of creeping denial regarding the reasons for the separation in the first place.

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May 18, 2013

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I Want to Get Married, He Doesn’t

As you wait and wait for your boyfriend to give you an engagement ring, you say to yourself, “I want to get married, but he doesn’t. What is going on?” You start asking yourself a series of questions. “Why won’t he marry me? Is there something wrong with me? Does he really love me? Is he the type of guy who will never get married?”

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May 14, 2013

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Adapting the Five Agreements for Relationships

If the earth grows inhospitable toward human presence, it is primarily because we have lost our sense of courtesy toward the earth and its inhabitants

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Dec 6, 2012

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How To Deal With Your Husband Loving Someone Else

“I envy the fog. I thirst for the water and crave for only those things that God himself can give to me. Therefore, I rise above it all,” that’s what I do.

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Aug 2, 2012

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The Importance of Relational Intimacy

Society is centered on money and prestige. It’s that simple. Even if you were born a happy hippy kid raised on granola and kisses, by now you know that money=prestige=success in western culture. Our cultivated egos value expensive cars, big houses, designer clothes, and exotic destinations.

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Mar 31, 2012

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3 Relationship Deal Breakers

Many people have a cookie cutter view of how relationships develop and how falling in love should be. As I have written often, relationships are a partnerships and that message often gets distorted as people meet someone in the initial phases. There are many factors that go into finding a “partner” in life and love. But I am going to concentrate on 3 biggies… children, marriage, and time.

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Feb 28, 2012

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Romance and the Art of a Grand Gesture

So when I was 17 a boy wrote me a song. He was performing for a group of people and announced that the next song was written for me. Now I was mostly a tomboy, but in that moment I was a princess, the only girl in the room.

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Feb 12, 2012

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Keep Your Relationship Working

If you want to keep your relationship working, there are some things that you will want to know in order to keep it going. I’m assuming that you’re having some problems in your relationship and you’re looking for answers as to how to fix them. It’s the purpose of this article to show you how to keep your relationship working.

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Jan 14, 2012

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Trust In A Relationship And Why It’s Important

Trust in a relationship is essential if you want to make your relationship last over the long term. Trust in a relationship is all about keeping your cool and knowing that the one that you’re with is being faithful. A lot of people have insecurities that plague the relationship, but you should learn how to have trust in the one that you love if you want to make it last forever.

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Dec 7, 2011

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Five Tips on How to Keep a Man in a Relationship

How can I keep a man in a relationship? The answer to this question is not as complicated as it might seem. Although there are many women out there struggling to stay in a relationship, keeping a man interested in a women is quite simple.

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