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Letting Go of a Bad Marriage or Relationship
Having worked with thousands of relationships, I have a few tips for those of you want to cut your losses and leave a bad one. First of all, let’s dispense with the notion of immediate “friendship.” If you’ve been struggling with a destructive relationship, then you’re going to need more distance than that. Friendship is possible when both parties have fairly good emotional boundaries around what’s private and not common ground. Coming from a destructive relationship, those boundaries are going to need time to be regenerated. If you’re going to “separate”, the harder task is to separate emotionally, not just physically. Casual leisure contact sends your unconscious the misguided message that the relationship will continue as usual. It will prevent you from getting on with the painful but necessary business of grieving over the losses. If you try to keep casual company with each other, you probably will begin to suffer “strategic amnesia” or another form of creeping denial regarding the reasons for the separation in the first place.
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Relationship Compatibility
As much as opposites attract like magnets, there have to be some common threads running through a relationship if it is to be a success. Many people believe that love conquers all but there are some things that love just cannot take down. It is for this reason that there are so many relationship counselors, dating sites and agencies that will stress on relationship compatibility. Simply explained, relationship compatibility is all about determining whether two people will be good together in a relationship. They take a look at criteria such as age, standard of living and many other factors to determine the chances of the two of you making your relationship work. Relationship compatibility is very important and looking at the factors below, you can see just how greatly it influences your relationship whether just dating or serious.
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I Want to Get Married! He Doesn’t! – How Do You Get A Man to Commit?
Ever since you were a little girl you wanted to get married. That is what little girls think about. First off, just about all little girls want to marry their dad, and all little boys want to marry their mom. When we realize that is not going to happen, then we go in search of the next best thing boys! I don’t know how many times I had imagined getting married. I think I must have married 10 boys in the neighborhood. Back then, when they were young, they would get married too! Now, some men just don’t want to get married. Or, is it that they just don’t want to marry you?
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I Want to Get Married, He Doesn’t
As you wait and wait for your boyfriend to give you an engagement ring, you say to yourself, “I want to get married, but he doesn’t. What is going on?” You start asking yourself a series of questions. “Why won’t he marry me? Is there something wrong with me? Does he really love me? Is he the type of guy who will never get married?”
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Relationships: Five Do’s and Don’ts
Most of us want to build strong, healthy relationships with our loved ones. I believe relationships – especially with our children and life partner – provide us with the greatest opportunity for personal growth in our lifetime.
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How To Get Your Man To Commit
As a woman, it is natural to get to a point where you feel like you want more from the relationship. This is especially true if you have been with the guy for a long time and you know that he is the one. If you are in a place where you want to get your man to commit, there are things you can do to make sure he does exactly that without regretting his decision. Here are a few things you should do.
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Relationship Advice – Are You In A Transitional Relationship?
Transitional relationships occur when a person has left what was a serious relationship and is not immediately looking for that someone special. But in the meantime, if they happen upon someone they can get along with reasonably well, and can basically tolerate, then they will stay with them until someone better comes along. Thus, the relationship is a transitional relationship and “will do” until they find someone else they want to have a special relationship with.
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Adapting the Five Agreements for Relationships
If the earth grows inhospitable toward human presence, it is primarily because we have lost our sense of courtesy toward the earth and its inhabitants
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I Asked My Boyfriend For A Commitment And He Said We Don’t Know What The Future Holds
I often hear from women who are with a man with whom they would happily spend the rest of their lives. Often, they know right away that he could possibly be “the one.” Unfortunately, sometimes the man doesn’t have this type of certainty. He often wants to move more slowly and just see what happens.
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People Change – But Why?
“… Much as he likes to play, crazy and wild and free… marry the man today and change his ways tomorrow… ” From Frank Loesser’s 1950 musical, Guys and Dolls
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